A wise woman builds her house (Proverbs 14:1)….which means she builds her house with the labor of her love…she does not purposely destroy, nor does she allow another access…which also means she builds her man up with encouragement and love with an intensity that translates to the man who realizes the treasure he has found…if he is not treasuring you …ask yourself what you are doing wrong…

Proverbs 27:15 teaches us that it is not healthy for a woman to fuss nor be quarrelsome. Do you feel the need to have the last word? Always have to be right? Remember you are not the head but were made/equipped to assist/stand at his side…but if you continually destroy your house you will have nothing left…

If the heart is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23) then the mind could be the channel that determines the process of the outcome…meaning one must decide what level of relationship that one lets into their life/heart…one must guard through their thought process and then choose wisely….(best way to play that game is through your relationship with God/prayer)…GAME ON..

Before you give anyone advice…try asking God what you should say first…this might alleviate some problems you might cause to someone – – trying to be a counselor without consulting God…Proverbs 11:14/15:22

 Proverbs 31:1-31

A mother can influence her children….and her love is powerful…it teaches…it heals…it uplifts…and has the ability to place vision in the heart of a child…Proverbs 31:1-2

Mother’s teach your young men not to give their strength or heart to a woman ahead of time…teach them stay away from things that destroy….teach them to look for the inward components of a woman….her strength and her wisdom. Teach them to look for her ability to be able to love, support and uplift…Proverbs 31:3

Mother’s teach your young men not to be inebriated (drunk)…for then they can not rule properly…they afflict others…forget what they are supposed to do…and cause havoc…but they should look after those who are down in spirit and need assistance…Proverbs 31:4-7

Men have the ability to speak for others and keep them from paths of destruction…they are judger’s of what is good and what is right…they do know how to uplift those who are oppressed and in spiritual straights…Proverbs 31:8-9

A wife is worth more than jewels…she is precious…she must be sought out to find…her character is above reproach…once found…you must continue to seek after her heart…and she will keep you safe…more importantly you can find rest in her….Proverbs 31:10-12

Can you be trusted in your relationship? Are the intimate details of your husband kept safely within your heart/mind/spirit? Or are you one of those women who will put him on “blast”? Learn to keep his heart hidden within yours…Proverbs 31:11

Ladies…are you busy taking care of home? Or are you busy meddling, hanging with your girls, talking about everybody round the way, down the block…be about your man’s business first…Proverbs 31:13-15.

To get a handle in your relationship…it makes sense to seek the Master Designer about the man in your life…a consistent prayer life works wonders….prayer before the day begins often alleviates disasters throughout the day…provide for your family through prayer…family first…always…Proverbs 31:15

Ladies we are powerful when we minister to each other…yet so often we are selfish and hoard…this denotes a certain lack of freedom on our part…learn to share and free up some negative spiritual space…give to those who are not as fortunate as you are…Proverbs 31:15-17

Ladies put your money to good use….think of others….or family…focus on your future…you are strong in spirit and mentally able to accomplish much more…however you must stay busy with purpose…for in your womb you have the capability to birth destiny to yourself and others…..Proverbs 31:18-19

Ladies share your wealth in terms of knowledge, spirit and love…Proverbs 31:20

Ladies prepare your household for stormy weather…do not be caught off guard in spirit or in terms of the heart…Be the Queen that God called you to be….Proverbs 31:21-22

Ladies did you know that your husband is known by the works that you do? The wealth that you obtain and share in knowledge and in spirit…he can sit among his boys knowing all is well and his woman has his best interests at heart….Proverbs 31:23

Dignified ladies can strut their stuff, they are strong, wise, full of strength, knowledge and grace…everybody knows her value and who she is…what she does and what is given to others at the Master’s request…she is in tune to His Voice….Proverbs 31:24-25

Ladies be wise, kind and instruct in love…Proverbs 31:26

Ladies you can’t be all up in somebody else’s biz and expect for home to stay together…let’s keep it real…home is first…family is first….always…Proverbs 31:27

Ladies….your children will grow up and acknowledge the virtues of you; for a well kept home life allows your children and your husband to look to you with praise…knowing their well-being is kept hidden deep in your heart and spirit…Proverbs 31:28

Ladies – – Daughters of the King excel in all that they do…THEY ARE QUEENS…THEY STAND ABOVE ALL THE REST…Proverbs 31:29…GAME ON!!

So many believe that beauty is an outward component, when in reality beauty lies within one’s heart…it never fades…is graceful…is elegant…never deceptive…always looks for direction from above…Proverbs 31:30

Queen’s daughters willingly give of themselves…are transparent…and all who meet them know this…they are known by their works…not by their mouth…Proverbs 31:31