Are you the Love of His Life?
One of the problems in marriage is, people are often busy getting into it, but AFTER they say, “I do” things get shut down! Ladies, did you know the men have issues with this? The ladies are fronting and shutting the cookie jar down REAL quick after marriage. Why?
Sis, treat your hubby to some of YOU!!
Try eating breakfast in bed.
Take the honey and blueberries along.
Pow to the moon!
Sis, try approaching him FIRST!
Do you know your hubby’s love schedule? Clear your calendar!
His Sweet tooth!
Sis, when a man marries you he does so for various reasons. One tends to be sex. Did you know he desires YOU, HIS WIFE?
It is with clarity and understanding that we live within the confines and construct of rules in regards to relationships; and many theories and thought processes are based on culture, environment, societal relationships and or norms.
Can we change the GAME?
Married Ladies! Are you here?!
There always seems to be rules in marriage. Yet, I submit to you that we cannot always ascertain to cookie-cutter concepts. Each couple must work out and adhere to what works for them.
Ladies, some men struggle to communicate that they love intimacy just like you. I came across an article in Psychology Today where men would love it if you would show them that you WANT THEM (check out the article)!
Sis, does this sound like you?
- When you get mad you shut it down.
- When you get a headache you shut it down.
- When he does something you do not like, you shut it down.
You have all kinds of excuses. Ask the married brothers! Eventually, when you keep turning a man down he will stop asking. The sad part is, many of us do not realize that our denial of our body speaks volumes to his spirit. Tasting of your delicacies actually boosts his ego. Ergo! My WIFE wants ME!
Love, never send your man out the door hungry to the ravenous she-wolf! Feed him first! There are ladies waiting to throw themselves at him. Girl, you know some of the ladies are cuckoo for cocoa puffs!
Never give your husband away!!
Men compartmentalize their feelings. Your continual denial is a process of the two of you becoming nonexistent both emotionally and physically! Thus, when he walks away, it was not an immediate decision but one that had been building up over time.
Please pay attention to your husband. If there are behavioral challenges, seek counseling. If you know he is no longer attracted to you, change your eating habits. Now, mind you that attractiveness might be nil because of your mouth. Sis, work on that too! Take some supplements and vitamins. Next, acknowledge you are in sin because you are withholding. Yes, I am in the word! LOL. Do what’s necessary to take care of your hubby. I am in no wise advocating abuse, this is referring to a normal construct. Get help if you need it. Trust me a good counselor can help the two of you work through your family challenges.
♥ Love changes everything.